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What's up Diamonds ,

The Holidays are slowly coming to an end, before you know it it'll be New Year's 2020,  wow! That sounds like something that I've heard on the Syfy channel. However, I am looking forward to bringing in 2020 with a whole new set of rules for myself to live by. I'm not going to call them resolutions because resolutions never last, and I want this to last.

Here are some of the things that I promised myself that I would change coming into 2020:  Try not to get so angry at little things that are really not worth getting angry about. Try to use less profanity, within the past year or so I have become quite a potty mouth especially when I'm upset,  (I think that's my dad in me that comes out) either way it's not good so I'm going to try to calm my language and my temper for 2020.

Stop worrying so much about my children, I’ve come to the conclusion that I've raised them to be good adults, for the most part, respectable and hardworking young women. Anything else that happens after that only God knows and I'm sure he's not going to blame me for it. LOL, and finally trying to love myself more, stop stressing myself over my weight and things I have no control over. I remember when I was younger I worked out a lot (tight body), now as I've gotten older and busier I've slowed down, and the reality is it's going to happen to us all one day because that's just life and I'm going to start accepting that. Of course, I will maintain myself and try to eat healthier along with doing some type of cardio, but I’m not trying to overexert myself anymore…..face it I’ll never look the way I did when I was 16 yrs old and I don’t believe in poking and sticking myself with “procedures”. (It only makes you look weird) I’ve seen women thinking they look good when actually to me they’re funny-looking….#NOT

I had someone ask me do I touch up my photos on the Internet? My answer to that question is hell yeah!, That way if you see me out in real life you won't know that it's me, hello… photo touch-ups or filters gives me the ability to look the way that I think I should look, lol. As for anything else I'm just going to take it one day at a time that's all I can do, and thank my God he has blessed me to see another day. Pray more, love more, laugh more, give more and take care of myself a little better… there it is.

All it takes is a little courage and self confidence